What We Have Learned

What We Have Learned

Boys Have Feelings Too

But do they? Socialization, emotional expressivity, and narratives of masculinity

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Heidi J Kellam
Dec 10, 2025
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Two glasses of red wine sit next to one another on a wooden table. At one point, a man who hadn’t bought either of them would lift one to my lips.

At a fun night out, two men bought me a drink at the same time. I was giddy, delighting in the attention and the humor of the awkward situation I found myself in, holding two glasses of Pinot Noir, one in each hand.

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